Vibrators don’t usually come with instructions, so we have created this “guide” to help you along. There is no right way or wrong way to use a vibrator. Just find what feels good, and keep doing it! This blog is geared towards solo play and experimentation. After all, what better way to learn and figure out what feels best for you? After you figure it out, have your partner join in!
Experimenting With Your Vibrator Alone
Play Time!
Set aside a nice amount of time to experiment. It takes time to explore your body and figure out what feels good and what you like. Don’t rush this, you may find new areas that excite you that you never knew existed! Remember, there are different vibrators for different types of stimulation. You may want to own more than one type of vibrator.
Get Yourself In The Mood To Play
Try to create an atmosphere that is conducive to getting yourself in the mood. Light some candles, take a warm bath, play some relaxing music. If you know what turns you on, then go for it. Perhaps it is a sexy movie, or even some porn on demand. Or maybe you can just relax and use your imagination to create a steamy fantasy. If you decide to play while you are in the bath, make sure you have a waterproof vibrator.
When Play Time Begins
Make sure you explore all the different parts of your genitalia. It’s a good idea to have a bottle of lubrication available. Apply a generous amount to your genitals, toys, fingers or whatever you will be inserting or rubbing against your body. Lubrication prevents friction when any vibrator is touching the genitals and it's necessary when using a vibe for penetration.
For Women
Touch your clit with it, apply pressure if you want. Rub it between your vaginal lips. Press it against your perineum (the small area between your vagina and anus). Try holding it against your anus. If it's a penetrative vibe, insert it into your vagina. Try different depths of penetration. Hold it just at the opening of the vagina. If the vibrator has a larger head at the tip, try penetrating with just the tip. If you have a g-spot vibe, experiment with twisting it around in your vagina to hit all the different spots. If you are feeling like a vibrator that provides multiple areas of stimulation, try a rabbit vibrator ... just know that you might have excitement overload with this one. Most women orgasm very quickly with rabbit vibes. Don’t be shy … try all areas! You may be surprised at what you find out about yourself.
For Men
Try rubbing a vibrator up and down the shaft of your penis. Hold it against and between your testicles. To stimulate your prostate externally, hold it up to your anus and press it against your perineum. This is an extremely exciting spot for men. If you have a vibrating cock ring, experiment with the different speeds and pulsations. Stroke your penis and squeeze your testicles. If you normally masturbate, do it the way you usually do and see if the vibrations enhance it at all.
You Can Use a Vibrator on Other Areas of Your Body Too!
Don’t forget that you can move the vibrator around to other parts of your body. Nipples are a favorite erogenous zone, and the body has many. See how many you can find. Relax and breathe deeply. Concentrate on what you're feeling.
Use Other Methods For Stimulation At The Same Time
Use your hands, fingers or other toys to stimulate yourself. If you have an external vibe on your clit, then penetrate your vagina with your fingers or a dildo. Squeeze your nipples, rub your vaginal lips. For men, stroke your penis or squeeze your testicles. It's very exciting and enhancing to incorporate other forms of stimulation with a vibrator and it's a great way to get to know your sexual likes and dislikes.
The Bottom Line
Just relax and enjoy. Using sexual enhancement toys and masturbation is completely natural, and hey … it can be a whole lot of fun. Try it alone, or try it with a partner. Mutual masturbation is a fantastic way to get to know you and your partner’s likes and “magic” buttons.
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