Spend the Weekend Together in Bed

Clear your schedule for the weekend. Yep, 48 hours with absolutely no interruptions. The only thing you will be doing over the weekend is pleasing your lover between the sheets.

Start the day by cooking breakfast together … naked of course! Then head back to the bedroom and eat in bed together. Feed each other sensually. Lick each other’s fingers. Play with the food while you eat it.

Now that breakfast is over, be prepared to play and experiment. Find out what makes each of you curl your toes with ecstasy. There is nothing like watching an adult movie to set the mood. Get a DVD or perhaps some video on demand. Try to watch an entire adult movie without touching each other (feel free to touch yourself and tease your partner). Take note as to what seems to excite your partner. Then watch the movie again and act out the scenes with your lover.

Pull out the Kama Sutra Weekender Kit. It contains five sexy Kama Sutra items:

Oil of Love: Caress a few drops onto your favorite erogenous zone, and blow gently to release the gentle warming power. Follow with sexy kisses.

Pleasure Balm: Apply a small amount to any and all of your desired pleasure points, such as the breasts, lips, thighs, genital areas, etc. Enjoy the stimulating sensation and delight in this lickable treat.

Honey Dust: Dip the feather into the Honey Dust and stroke the soft feather across your lover's body. This delicate body powder will leave the skin feeling soft, smelling fragrant and tasting delicious!

Massage Oil: Drizzle your favorite scented massage oil onto your hands or directly onto your lover's body. Gently caress into the body and enjoy the aroma therapeutic scent and the light, silky texture.

Sensual Lubricant: Apply your preferred lubricant directly to the genital area.

After caressing, licking and playing, how about sharing some erotic massage? The Mini Miracle Massager is perfect for all areas of the body. It is cordless, small and lightweight. The vibrations are perfect for running over each other’s body … and certainly stopping and spending extra time in certain areas. Vibrators are an excellent source of excitement and arousal for both men and women.

Order takeout for dinner (you might want to briefly put some clothes on to answer the door!). Have a picnic in bed … naked again of course! Lay out a towel to protect the bed, and enjoy feeding each other dinner.

For some extra excitement during intercourse, how about the Impulse 3 Micro Arouser! It is a stretchy cock ring with a vibrating bullet that is placed perfectly for clitoral stimulation. Women, get on top of your partner and ride him until orgasm. By being on top, it allows you to find that perfect clitoral placement!

What about dessert? Well, chocolate of course! The Lovers Paint Box from Kama Sutra is a perfect dessert to a sexy day! It contains three chocolate body paints, milk chocolate, dark chocolate and white chocolate. It also has a body paintbrush. Paint sexy messages on each other’s back and try to figure out what it says. Then seductively lick it off and start again! For extra fun, add some fruit and whipped cream.

After a full day of passion, exploration and hot sex of course we need to clean up! Head into the bathroom, and either fill the tub with hot water or step into the shower. Light some candles to set the mood and take a waterproof toy with you to keep the sexcitement going. Perhaps a vibrating scrunchie, or a waterproof vibrator. Take turns washing and pleasuring each other.

Now get some sleep … you have 24 hours left of fun, passion, exploration and sex!

One Touch Wonder Egg - Sexpert Review

We received our third toy from Cal Exotics a couple of weeks ago for our participation is the Sexpert program. It has taken me longer than usual to write the review because I was trying to find some positives with this toy. I must say, this is the first time I have been disappointed by a Cal Exotics product. So, let’s start with the specs:

Length: 2 1/2"
Circumference: 4 1/2"
Diameter: 1 3/8"
Weight: 0.2 lb
Cord: 8”
Batteries: 2 N batteries (included)
Material: ABS with Velvet-Cote™ (PU Cote)
Waterproof: Yes.
Vibration Level: 3 functions: vibration, pulsation, and escalation

I thought that this product was “weak.” I could hardly feel the vibrations. I tried to use it on my clit … I didn’t feel much. It was frustrating. I tried insertion … didn’t feel much there either. I ended up pulling out another toy and tossing the One Touch Wonder Egg to the side.

Did I like anything about this toy? Well, I thought the push button activation switch was clever. I liked the placement, at the end of the cord. And sadly, that was about it. Even placing the batteries in the toy was frustrating. Getting the top back on was tricky.

My rating … well, maybe a 2 out of 10, which is a bit generous. The One Touch Wonder Egg left me wondering what the toy is actually good for.

Sorry Cal Exotics. I will be looking forward to the next item!

My Mini Miracle Massager Review

So, the second toy delivery from California Exotics arrived the other day. Being a Certified Sexpert, I look forward to that monthly package arriving! After opening the box, I found the My Mini Miracle Massager Wand. I was so excited about this one. I had just put this item and some of its accessories up on my own site, FantasyEmporium.com, and was curious about this product even before receiving it from California Exotics.

This massager looks just like a mini massager! I can actually call it cute! For the specs: This massager is 7 ¾ inches long and it operates on 2 AA batteries, so it doesn’t need to be plugged in, which is great. It is waterproof, so one could use it in the shower, tub, etc. It has a flexible soft tip. It has a multi-speed controller which controls the intensity of the vibrations. It weighs just under 3 ounces, so it is light. It does make a bit of noise when it is running, which I didn’t expect.

Like I said previously, I was excited about receiving this toy, so I actually used it right away! I love that this toy is a massager, and can be used in many different ways. Of course I had to try it for sexual pleasure first. I liked the vibration speeds and the compact size. The tip (head) of the wand was a good size for clitoral placement. It spread the vibrations throughout the entire area. The tip of the massager is flexible ... I think it is a little too flexible. I noticed when I tried to put heavier pressure on myself that the flexibility took away the sensation that I was trying to achieve. I did manage to reach climax, but it took a bit longer because I got a little frustrated with the flexibility. There are attachments available for this product, which I think I will try one or two out to see if it helps at all.

As far as using it as a massager, the vibrations were not as strong as I would like them to be. It did provide a nice feeling, but that is about it.

I do like the portability of the massager. It is small, lightweight, and looks inconspicuous. It will probably become a good travel companion of mine just for that reason.

The final rating … I think I will give this one 8 out of 10 because of its size and ability to multi-task!

What Kind of Vibrator is Right for Me?

There are so many different kinds of vibrators. The choices can be overwhelming. So how does one know what kind of vibrator is right for them? Or what do all of these vibrators do? Let us help you decide! Here is our little guide to different types of vibrators. Sit back, relax, read, purchase one for yourself (or you and your partner) and enjoy!

Massagers/Vibrators
Massagers … these look like an innocent, therapeutic body massager. Most of these massagers have a round head, and some come with attachments. They can make any part of your body feel wonderful. These are not just for sexual stimulation, although they are great for that. And ladies, these can be used on men’s genital areas too! The range of vibration is quite extensive and quite powerful. Most of these massagers run off of a plug in power cord. So there will have to be an outlet nearby (maybe an extension cord). The good thing about that is you don’t have to worry about your batteries dying on you! And since it looks like a therapeutic massager, you don’t have to hide it!

Mini-Massagers/Vibrators
The most popular and one of the first of the more discreet, mini massagers is the Pocket Rocket. This tiny vibrator packs a lot of power and is small enough to fit in one’s purse. The idea of a small, discreet vibrator has branched off into many different variations. You can get tiny rabbit vibrators, and hey, if discreet is what you are looking for, there is even a vibrator that looks like a tube of lipstick! There are also vibrators that fit on the tip of your finger, which add some extra stimulation to manual masturbation. Most of these vibrators run off small AAA batteries. But don’t let that fool you, some of these mini massagers have variations in speeds and pulsations and pack plenty of power to please.

Multi-Function Vibrators
Here we talk about the Rabbit Vibrator. These are usually made of jelly material and shaped like a penis. The head of the penis rotates, while the rotating beads or pearls in the shaft cause the shaft to expand, stimulating the opening of the vagina. Also, the rabbit that protrudes from the base of the shaft vibrates against the woman’s clit causing multiple stimulation and possibly pleasure overload. And no, the clitoral stimulators are not just shaped like rabbits anymore! You can find a wide variety of different shapes. I’m sure there is one to tickle your fancy. Some of these toys can be a little on the heavy side compared to a traditional vibrator. They usually use 4 AA batteries, and they have a bigger control panel. The shaft has one control, and the rabbit function has another. This allows for each to have it’s own speed and stimulation. So, you can customize it to fit you perfectly!

There are also triple pleasure toys that offer clitoral, vaginal anal pleasure in one, like Triple Fling. The shaft is inserted in the vagina while the thinner shaft is inserted in the anus and the clitoral stimulator does its part. These are perfect for those who desire the ultimate in stimulation. Being penetrated and vibrated in all areas at the same time is sure to drive one into pleasure overload.

Hidden/Secret Vibes
As mentioned above, one of the most famous of this type of vibrator is the Lipstick Vibe. The perfect vibrator for your purse, the Lipstick Vibe can travel anywhere. It's a 4.5 inch vibrator that comes in its own lipstick looking case. Slip this in your purse and make sure you always have the means at your disposal to relieve any sexual desires. Some of these are even waterproof!

If you are feeling daring, there is always that pair of wireless, vibrating panties. Worn right under your clothes, inside the panties is a wireless vibrator that fits into a secret pocket. There is a small remote control that works up to 20 feet away. Put these on, give the remote to your partner, and head out for a night on the town … if you can take it!

There are also strap on clitoral stimulators, like the famous Venus Butterfly. These have push button controls, a removable vibrating bullet with various vibration functions. These will hide nicely under your clothes as well, however, once you put it on and press the button, you might not make it out of the house!

Waterproof Vibes
These vibrators are specially designed to be used in situations where water will be present. They offer the same kind of power, stimulation, colors and sizes, as traditional vibrators, but are water friendly. You can get waterproof traditional vibrators, waterproof pocket vibrators, waterproof bullets, and even waterproof rabbit vibrators. And for fun, how about a waterproof vibrating scrunchie!

G-Spot Vibes
These have been specifically designed to stimulate and vibrate against the g-spot when the vibrator is inserted. So if you like a lot of g-spot stimulation, this will not only give you the penetration, but the vibration stimulation against your g-spot as well. If you can handle it, you can even get a g-spot vibrator “rabbit” style, such as the Rotating G-Spot Vibe.

Bullet/Egg Shaped Vibes
Slightly smaller than an egg, the Egg Vibe is made of hard plastic or plastic covered in soft vinyl or jelly rubber. As with the Bullet Vibe, it is shaped like a tablet, and usually made of plastic. They are both designed to be inserted vaginally (just insert it like a tampon), but can certainly be pressed against the clitoris. The bullet vibrators can also be stuck inside a dildo (one that's hollowed out) to make it vibrate. Some eggs and bullets are plugged into a controller, some are wireless and some are waterproof. There are even some that are operated by remote control, like the Decadent Remote Control, so you can insert and have fun with your partner secretly, although I’m not sure one could hide the excitement! Also, as long as there is a cord on the end of the egg or bullet, they can be used for anal play as well.

Anal Vibrators
There are sensitive nerve endings found in the anus, and anal vibrators are designed to stimulate those nerves! An exciting combination of vibrator and butt plug, anal vibrators can have variable speeds, internal or external power supplies, and fancy features, just like traditional vibrators.

Things to consider for safe anal play: communication, relaxation, and lots and lots of lubrication. The anal canal does not produce any sort of lubrication. The insertion of a dry vibrator into the anus can cause pain and tissue tearing. Take it slow, be gentle, and respect your partner's boundaries.

So, go shopping for your vibe. Best bet ... buy more than one. So much fun to be had!

Sexpert – California Exotics Petite Couture – Enchanted

So, I received my first toy from California Exotics since being chosen to be a Sexpert for them. The Petite Couture Enchanted massager showed up at my door one Saturday morning. The specs on this massager are: It is 5 inches long and 1.25 inches in diameter. It is waterproof, takes 2 AAA batteries, has 7 functions of vibration, escalation, and pulsation. It is made of silicone, and is unscented.

I wanted to use this toy a couple of times before writing my review … so what did I like? First, the material was fabulous. I loved the feel of the Japanese silicone. It has a smooth, velvety feel. The controls on this toy were easy to use, and in a good spot. I liked the 7 different functions also. There were three basic vibrations (slow, medium and high); some pulsing vibes; and some escalating vibes. They had nice power to them. I tend to lean towards a high vibration speed, and found that is what I used most. I liked the size and shape of this toy, it was not overwhelming, and had a somewhat realistic shape which made it comfortable for insertion.

What didn’t I like? Well, I am one that favors clitoral stimulation. Since the toy is soft and pliable, I found when I did try to use it for some clitoral stimulation, it didn’t provide much enjoyment. I was not able to reach orgasm from insertion, so this toy did not leave me “satisfied.”

Final thoughts … for a toy used just for insertion, I thought it was very good. The material was great and the 7 functions were wonderful. However, being one that needs clitoral stimulation, this toy left me wanting more. I am going to rate this toy 6.5 out of 10 because the pluses that it has are very strong. I have checked out California Exotics other massagers in this collection, and they do have some that provide clitoral stimulation also … and I think I am going to have to get myself one of those!

Vibrators - How Do You Use Them?

Vibrators don’t usually come with instructions, so we have created this “guide” to help you along. There is no right way or wrong way to use a vibrator. Just find what feels good, and keep doing it! This blog is geared towards solo play and experimentation. After all, what better way to learn and figure out what feels best for you? After you figure it out, have your partner join in!

Experimenting With Your Vibrator Alone

Play Time!
Set aside a nice amount of time to experiment. It takes time to explore your body and figure out what feels good and what you like. Don’t rush this, you may find new areas that excite you that you never knew existed! Remember, there are different vibrators for different types of stimulation. You may want to own more than one type of vibrator.

Get Yourself In The Mood To Play
Try to create an atmosphere that is conducive to getting yourself in the mood. Light some candles, take a warm bath, play some relaxing music. If you know what turns you on, then go for it. Perhaps it is a sexy movie, or even some porn on demand. Or maybe you can just relax and use your imagination to create a steamy fantasy. If you decide to play while you are in the bath, make sure you have a waterproof vibrator.

When Play Time Begins
Make sure you explore all the different parts of your genitalia. It’s a good idea to have a bottle of lubrication available. Apply a generous amount to your genitals, toys, fingers or whatever you will be inserting or rubbing against your body. Lubrication prevents friction when any vibrator is touching the genitals and it's necessary when using a vibe for penetration.

For Women
Touch your clit with it, apply pressure if you want. Rub it between your vaginal lips. Press it against your perineum (the small area between your vagina and anus). Try holding it against your anus. If it's a penetrative vibe, insert it into your vagina. Try different depths of penetration. Hold it just at the opening of the vagina. If the vibrator has a larger head at the tip, try penetrating with just the tip. If you have a g-spot vibe, experiment with twisting it around in your vagina to hit all the different spots. If you are feeling like a vibrator that provides multiple areas of stimulation, try a rabbit vibrator ... just know that you might have excitement overload with this one. Most women orgasm very quickly with rabbit vibes. Don’t be shy … try all areas! You may be surprised at what you find out about yourself.

For Men
Try rubbing a vibrator up and down the shaft of your penis. Hold it against and between your testicles. To stimulate your prostate externally, hold it up to your anus and press it against your perineum. This is an extremely exciting spot for men. If you have a vibrating cock ring, experiment with the different speeds and pulsations. Stroke your penis and squeeze your testicles. If you normally masturbate, do it the way you usually do and see if the vibrations enhance it at all.

You Can Use a Vibrator on Other Areas of Your Body Too!
Don’t forget that you can move the vibrator around to other parts of your body. Nipples are a favorite erogenous zone, and the body has many. See how many you can find. Relax and breathe deeply. Concentrate on what you're feeling.

Use Other Methods For Stimulation At The Same Time
Use your hands, fingers or other toys to stimulate yourself. If you have an external vibe on your clit, then penetrate your vagina with your fingers or a dildo. Squeeze your nipples, rub your vaginal lips. For men, stroke your penis or squeeze your testicles. It's very exciting and enhancing to incorporate other forms of stimulation with a vibrator and it's a great way to get to know your sexual likes and dislikes.

The Bottom Line
Just relax and enjoy. Using sexual enhancement toys and masturbation is completely natural, and hey … it can be a whole lot of fun. Try it alone, or try it with a partner. Mutual masturbation is a fantastic way to get to know you and your partner’s likes and “magic” buttons.

We have been chosen as a "Sexpert"

We are honored to have been one of the chosen to be a “Sexpert” for California Exotics Novelties. What does that mean you ask … well, we submitted an application to Cal Exotics in response to their search for bloggers, people with web sites, etc. Those that were chosen will receive a product from California Exotics every month.

Our part is the fun part! We get to review the product and tell everyone about it here on our blog, and also on our website, www.FantasyEmporium.com.

We love the products from California Exotics, and we do sell them on our site. We think this is a fabulous opportunity to review the products and get information out to the public about them. And what better way to do that than a review of the product by people just like you and me!

Keep checking back with us for reviews! We also post sexy tips coupled with sexy products to help ignite your sensual fire! And don’t forget … we also have contests for giveaways of novelty items on a regular basis.